Sunday, August 5, 2012
Codependence
Codependency is a disease, is a way of relating to people, mainly those meaningful relationships. But this time I will talk about the couple.
Codependent people always make, as its name implies, destructive relationships, toxic, dependent, abusive and controlling. Loved parts of the relationship suffer and have responsibility for building the bond of love.
People who come to establish dependency relationships generally have a poor opinion of themselves and of course show a deficit in self-esteem. Therefore fail to have a positive image of themselves. Believe and live thinking that while "more give to others" more will get. But his experience is otherwise, "even though they are less"
The need to be needed is your reason for living. The accompanying resentment for life, also has the slogan of wanting to change the behavior of a couple and are capable of great sacrifice in order to love your partner.
What are some of the reasons people become codependent:
- Growing up in a family of assault and abuse of any kind.
- Be subject from childhood environments and homes where addiction was a form of family life.
- Take responsibility for a family when the circumstances require, perhaps because parents were ill, died or were psychologically infantile.
- Growing up in chaotic environments emotionally.
Some environments encourage codependency as a form of relationship also is encouraged because people are thought to be "very responsible and dedicated to no conflicts or trouble"
Codependent people always put aside their needs and are pending in the family environment in which they live. Instead of allowing each person to solve what is due and take their own consequences, however, they are responsible for everything and everyone, and of course your partner.
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