Second chance at Amistad

In life we ​​talk about opportunities in the theory, however, when it costs us a lot of practice to take the step of assuming that we should forgive and start again. Forgiveness means simply that. Make a fresh start, try to keep going, do not let a stain on a friendship can erase all the good times. Is this easy? No.

Depends primarily on the expectations you had put in the other person. If you think you are someone who never betray you or would not have behaved in a way, then get a bucket of cold water and a remarkable level of disappointment. On the other hand, you realize how much you value that person in terms of how you react when you tell that you've been disappointed. If you do nothing to solve it, if you do not care what has happened to you.

So do not tell you as soon as you get may have been a person who has no qualms about using you when it was needed when he needed to tell their troubles and sorrows. In that case, the disappointment comes from comparing how you treat that person in good times or in bad when you're still exactly the same.

Sometimes you'll find people who do not know why hurt you. But because of that, you have to think, because in fact, in most cases, it will, is that these people did not intend to hurt you. And acted out of ignorance, weakness, insecurity, fear ... There are countless options ... do not try to enter the consciousness of others, just trying to show your heart always with dignity.

At times you will notice if a person deserves a second chance or not. Even no need to worry or burden you make a decision immediately because the facts of the other person will speak for themselves.